Me-You-We (Singles) — 1 session

Service Description

Nobody teaches us how to love. This is where we start — with you. We learn to walk. To read. To drive, to cook, to navigate airports in languages we barely speak. But love? We're supposed to just know. It's supposed to arrive — fully formed, effortless, unmistakable — and if it doesn't feel that way, we assume we've got the wrong person. This is one of the most beautiful — and most damaging — myths we carry. The feeling of falling — the electricity, the pull, the particular joy of discovering someone — that's real. And it is a gift. But it's a gift like a flower. It arrives beautiful and alive and full of possibility. And then — and this is the part nobody warns you about — you have to tend it. Water it. Give it light. Neglect it long enough — and it quietly stops blooming. This is where we begin. With me. You come with a story. Maybe it's the same pattern repeating with different people — and you can't quite figure out why. Maybe you're stepping back into dating after a long time away and the whole thing feels more complicated than it used to. Maybe you know what you don't want but have no clear picture of what you do. Or maybe you're simply ready — ready to understand yourself well enough to stop arriving at relationships the same way and expecting a different result. The first layer is always me. Who am I? What do I carry? What have I learned about love — and what has that taught me about myself? In this first session, you talk. I listen. We look together at how you learned to love. Your values in relationships — not what sounds good on paper, but what actually works for you in the texture of daily life. Your needs. Your attachment style. The patterns that have been running quietly in the background, shaping who you're drawn to and why. Your story is the map. And we read it together before we take a single step. Then we agree: how we travel together, for how long, and what we each commit to. We sign our coaching agreement. And we begin. "The art of rediscovering yourself — at every stage of life." Online worldwide or in person in Auckland. English or German.